{"id":4059,"date":"2018-12-18T12:32:41","date_gmt":"2018-12-18T12:32:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/?p=4059"},"modified":"2018-12-18T12:32:41","modified_gmt":"2018-12-18T12:32:41","slug":"choices-and-time-management-you-decide-your-priorities","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/es\/choices-and-time-management-you-decide-your-priorities\/","title":{"rendered":"Choices and Time Management: You Decide Your Priorities"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>As a photographer for over a decade and a time management coach for several years to photographers and entrepreneurs, there is a persistent lie that I encounter, and it\u2019s one that I believed \u2013 and which caused me great pain and suffering \u2013 for years.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s very simple: \u201cI don\u2019t have time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-QuadReal-Buildings-17.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4064\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-QuadReal-Buildings-17.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-QuadReal-Buildings-17.jpg 960w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-QuadReal-Buildings-17-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-QuadReal-Buildings-17-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-QuadReal-Buildings-17-570x381.jpg 570w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The most powerful thing I can say to anyone about time management is that you do have time, you just believe that you don\u2019t. Think about it for a moment: every person gets the same amount of time \u2013 different amounts of daylight, different schedules, different responsibilities that they value \u2013 but the same amount of time. Psychologists and neuroscientists have been able to link behaviours and beliefs \u2013 what we believe about our time, our responsibilities, and our conscious priorities affect our behaviour.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a target=\"_self\" href=\"http:\/\/goo.gl\/1m7RF7\" class=\"stag-button stag-button--large stag-button--green stag-button--normal stag-icon--before\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fa fa-desktop\" ><\/i>Try JPEGmini Pro For Free Now!<\/a><\/h3>\n<p>Do you know what your priorities are? Some people have lists, some rarely take the time to think about it, but our unconscious priorities are perfectly reflected in our day-to-day lives. What you actually, really believe and value, not what you\u2019d like to be doing, is what is reflected in how you spend your time. It\u2019s often the source of a lot of unhappiness to have ideals and values that aren\u2019t reflected in your time.<\/p>\n<p>Time is the most expensive commodity in the world because you can only make more by borrowing someone else\u2019s. That\u2019s why we hire others, have other people grow and manufacture our food, invented planes \u2013 the entire world is based on buying time, and the majority of that time belongs to another person.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Commerce-Place-Highlights-WEB-13.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4061\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Commerce-Place-Highlights-WEB-13.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Commerce-Place-Highlights-WEB-13.jpg 960w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Commerce-Place-Highlights-WEB-13-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Commerce-Place-Highlights-WEB-13-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Commerce-Place-Highlights-WEB-13-570x381.jpg 570w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Consider the old adage, \u201cTime is money.\u201d I\u2019m going to give an analogy about that. Let\u2019s imagine you had spending money that you had to budget \u2013 except this time you\u2019re budgeting time. Some things are pretty necessary. You\u2019ll eventually stop functioning if you don\u2019t spend a good chunk on sleeping \u2013 it\u2019s like spending money on rent or a mortgage. Everyone needs a decent grocery budget, because we all have to eat. And as much as we\u2019d rather not spend money on toilet paper, we\u2019re going to have to keep using the bathroom. Beyond that, though, you\u2019re going to spend that money on your priorities. Some people are going to spend it on eating out, some on surfing, some on video games, some on buying new gear. The possibilities are endless.<\/p>\n<p>Now when I bring up this analogy, someone might say, \u201cIt\u2019s essential to have a cell phone. Why didn\u2019t you put that on the list?\u201d It\u2019s not literally essential, though. You will not starve or stop breathing! Lots of human beings live entirely without electricity, much less cell phones. I\u2019m just trying to say that everything that is not literally essential is up for debate, and change, and choice. Things you\u2019d never thought you\u2019d chosen because they\u2019re such a part of everyday life.<\/p>\n<p>We all have choices. We choose how responsible to be, how much time to spend with your family, to work or to relax. You choose whether to care for your health or careen headlong into burnout, disease, and loneliness. And a lot of people are really struggling with that these days.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Amandas-Trash-the-Dress-69_WEB.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4060\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Amandas-Trash-the-Dress-69_WEB.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Amandas-Trash-the-Dress-69_WEB.jpg 960w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Amandas-Trash-the-Dress-69_WEB-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Amandas-Trash-the-Dress-69_WEB-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Amandas-Trash-the-Dress-69_WEB-570x381.jpg 570w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I started to choose differently, and everyone can. So these days I always try to challenge people when they say \u201cI don\u2019t have time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Just like with most issues, the first step is realizing there\u2019s a problem. The next step is to make some practical changes. Humans spend most of their time on autopilot, and unlike a futuristic computer in a movie, our personal autopilot doesn\u2019t make ideal decisions all the time. Those who stay on autopilot are often angry and resentful about the events of their day-to-day life. A person may blame others or themselves or say it\u2019s because of the children, success, money, illness, or just being too worn out. Those things certainly affect your life, but they\u2019re also the result of choices, and a person can make new choices.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Mad-Science-Engagement-Shevelle-and-Glyn-Edmonton-29.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4063\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Mad-Science-Engagement-Shevelle-and-Glyn-Edmonton-29.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Mad-Science-Engagement-Shevelle-and-Glyn-Edmonton-29.jpg 960w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Mad-Science-Engagement-Shevelle-and-Glyn-Edmonton-29-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Mad-Science-Engagement-Shevelle-and-Glyn-Edmonton-29-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Mad-Science-Engagement-Shevelle-and-Glyn-Edmonton-29-570x381.jpg 570w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>People always ask me what the secret is too good time management, as though I\u2019ll come up with some secret formula. There are formulas, sure, specific, authentic, good ones that work well. But until you begin to believe that you actually have a choice, you\u2019ll be stuck with the same time budget you\u2019ve been using for years, and you\u2019ll be time broke.<\/p>\n<p>By far the greatest regret of the elderly is not spending enough time with people they appreciate. No one regrets not taking that extra shoot, in the end. No one gets to the final day of their life and wishes they had a better standard of living. Psychologists tell us that most North American elderly people just wish they\u2019d spent less time working, more time with family and friends, and been less stressed out all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Is reading this an awakening for you? Do me a favour and make a conscious choice today. Pick at least one of the following five super practical options, and stick with it!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Kori-and-Daves-Engagement-33.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4062\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Kori-and-Daves-Engagement-33.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"641\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Kori-and-Daves-Engagement-33.jpg 960w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Kori-and-Daves-Engagement-33-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Kori-and-Daves-Engagement-33-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.jpegmini.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/Admire-Studios-Kori-and-Daves-Engagement-33-570x381.jpg 570w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>1. Take 5 minutes out of every single day to text, call, or message a friend or family member to say you\u2019re thinking of them. Every. Day. Bonus: Make a date with a friend who you haven\u2019t seen forever at a place you enjoy.<br \/>\n2. Are you introverted? Take one hour out of every week for 100% me time. Non-negotiable except for code-red emergency situations. No shoots. No editing. No cancellations. No other humans.<br \/>\n3. Does mess stress you out? Hire a housecleaner sometimes. Yes, you can afford it, it\u2019s not that expensive. You\u2019ll be doing everyone a favour. Hands down the most affordable stress-buster for 90% of my time management clients for whom this was an issue \u2013 and they became more productive.<br \/>\n4. Are you in a long-term relationship? If so, the fate of that relationship is going to rest on spending time together. Plan at least one big, special date night every month. Especially in busy season.<br \/>\n5. Stop and Think. Take two hours. Write down everything you feel responsible for. Examine each one for any possible changes that would mean less stress and more happiness. Then actually make the changes, over several weeks and months.<\/p>\n<p>Any choice you make on purpose to spend time making your life more like who you really want to be is good time management!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a photographer for over a decade and a time management coach for several years to photographers and entrepreneurs, there is a persistent lie that I encounter, and it\u2019s one that I believed \u2013 and which caused me great pain and suffering \u2013 for years. 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